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A |     中国小康网 独家专稿　　文｜陈艳涛一个人的无懈可击会变成最大的“懈”，让别人攻击。    HONG KONG -- While one war continues to rage in Ukraine and another is threatening to boil over in the Middle East, Chinese President Xi Jinping held court in Beijing for visiting dignitaries, presenting his vision of "an open, inclusive and interconnected world" through his signature global infrastructure project, the Belt and Road Initiative, while taking veiled swipes at the United States and its Western allies.In Xi's keynote speech marking the 10th anniversary of his pet foreign policy project, he criticized those who view "others' development as a threat" and "economic interdependence as a risk," saying protectionist actions like those the U.S. has taken against China "will not make one's own life better or speed up one's development.""We stand against are unilateral sanctions, economic coercion and decoupling," Xi told the cavernous meeting hall filled with representatives from more than 130 countries this week for the Belt and Road Forum.Clapping amongst the guests was Russian leader Vladimir Putin, who was personally invited by Xi to attend when the Chinese leader visited Moscow earlier this year.In Beijing, Xi gave Putin the warm reception he's been denied on the international stage since the war in Ukraine rendered him a pariah with Western countries. At the opening banquet Tuesday night, Putin strode into the reception hall walking side-by-side with Xi, ahead of the other invited leaders.The Belt and Road Initiative was initially proposed to increase the connectivity between China and the European markets, building linkages through countries across the Eurasian continents, recreating a modern silk road. A decade on, however, Western countries, including the United States, largely shunned the project, criticizing it as debt-trap diplomacy. In their place, the developing nations of the Global South have taken up China's offer to aid their infrastructure development expanding Beijing's influence in worldwide. This was reflected in the make up of the forum's attendees, further highlighting the widening geopolitical divide.Speaking at the forum immediately after Xi, Putin addressed an audience that included over 20 heads of state including the leaders of Indonesia, Thailand, Cambodia, Laos, Kenya, Hungary, Kazakhstan, Argentina and Chile. U.N. Secretary-General António Guterres was also in attendance."Russia and China, like most countries of the world, share the aspiration for equal and mutually beneficial cooperation in order to achieve universal sustainable and long-term economic progress and social well-being while respecting the diversity of civilization and the right of each state to its own development model," the Russian president said.With representation from Western countries absent or not invited to forum, the void allowed Chinese and Russian state media coverage of the event to portray that it is the West that is decoupling from the rest of the world. China and Russia have increasingly tailored their messaging for the Global South including in their response to Hamas' attack and Israel's retaliation.Creating a split-screen moment with their geopolitical rival US President Biden's visit to Israel, Xi and Putin continued to meet one-on-one on the sidelines of the forum where the two leaders talked up their enduring partnership and 'profound friendship."Xi called Putin his "old friend," noting that they have met some 42 times in person since 2013.In the official Chinese readout of the meetings, Xi stressed that "the deepening China-Russia relations" are "not a stopgap measure, but a long-term solution."Putin told Xi, "In current difficult conditions, close foreign policy coordination is especially in demand, which is what we are doing.Xi added that China supports Russia in their efforts to "safeguard their sovereignty."At a press conference Wednesday evening, Putin said he talked with Xi for three hours including a private one-one-one 'over a cup of tea' where the Russian leader teasingly told the Russian press that they discussed "confidential matters."Putin characterized the talks as "productive" and "constructive," covering the two countries' bilateral relations and the unfolding events in the Middle East without giving more details. The Chinese statement said, "the two heads of state also exchanged in-depth views on the situation in Palestine and Israel" without elaborating.This is Putin's first foreign trip beyond friendly former Soviet states since Russia started its war in Ukraine. The Russian leader has mainly stayed home since an arrest warrant was issued for him by the International Criminal Court over alleged war crimes in Ukraine earlier this year. During his last visit to Beijing for the 2022 Winter Games, Beijing and Moscow infamously proclaimed their friendship "has no limits" with no "forbidden areas of cooperation." This was tested immediately when Putin launched the war soon after the Olympics ended.While Beijing has refrained from sending direct lethal military aid to Russia, it has refused to condemn Russia's invasion and limited the impact of Western sanctions by importing more Russian oil and goods.That cross-border trade between the two neighbors is growing. Putin commented Wednesday that the trade turnover between the two neighbors reached $200 billion in the last year.Ahead of the forum, Russia and China signed their largest contract for the supply of grains. The head of a Russian grain trade group told the Russian news agency TASS that deal worth nearly $26 billion more than replaces the "lost volume of Ukrainian exports."In the Chinese version of their meeting, Xinhua News Agency highlighted Putin commending Xi's "strategic judgment" in seeing "great changes unseen for a century" taking around the world place in light of recent events.The quote is Xi's oft-used shorthand that the global order is changing.Back in March as Xi prepared to leave Moscow, the two leaders were filmed at the door of the Kremlin as Putin walked the Chinese leader to his awaiting vehicle."Right now there are changes -- the likes of which we haven't seen for 100 years -- and we are the ones driving these changes together," Xi told Putin."I agree," the Russian leader responded.。但这并非没有化解之道，懂得“自黑”，就能突围，化解敌意、收获真心。　　今天的影视观众都对完美人设有了免疫力，寻找那些完美好人的瑕疵，成了一种看剧的乐趣。那些个性鲜明，毫不掩饰缺点，甚至有点小奸小坏的人，一旦展现出某种人性闪光点来，反而更能让观众产生共鸣和欣赏。

B | 　　而那些活得溜光水滑、无懈可击的人，总不免让人心生疑虑，想探究其完美背后的真相。那些境遇顺遂、待人接物圆滑周到的人，也不免会让周围的人猜忌、怀疑，甚至毫无理由地厌恶、排斥。

C | 　　也因此，从《红楼梦》诞生起，冷静完美的宝钗，就被无数读者质疑，让他们像侦探一样，去搜寻字里行间各种蛛丝马迹，来判定她是一个虚伪、冷酷、奸诈的人。　　这也很好理解，作家王蒙说过：一个人的无懈可击会变成最大的“懈”，让别人攻击。　　但这并非没有化解之道，坦诚，就是一种解药。宝钗就几次用这个方法，化解了旁人对她的信任危机。　　宝玉因金钏和琪官事件挨打后，宝钗是第一个前去探望的人，袭人一时大意，说出了宝玉小厮茗烟的话，话里话外都透露出怀疑宝玉挨这顿打，是因为薛蟠透露了琪官的事，才引起一番风波。宝玉急忙拦住袭人，袭人这才“明白自己说造次了，恐宝钗没意思”。　　而宝钗是如何化解尴尬的呢？她首先坦诚自己哥哥是个“天不怕地不怕、心里有什么口里就说什么的人”，就算是他“说话不防头”，一时说出宝玉的事来，“也不是有心挑唆”，因为一则这本来也是实话，二则是以他的个性，他不会理论这些“防嫌小事”。　　宝钗这番话，坦率真诚又入情入理，看似不辩解、不护短，但其实又处处为哥哥解释了动机缘由，直让袭人“羞愧难言”，让宝玉对她来探病的情意，以及那种红着脸低头弄衣带的“娇羞怯怯”动心不已，“将疼痛早丢在九霄云外”了。　　坦诚以待，去打破完美表象，加上适当示弱，甚至会化解一些顽固的敌意。　　小说《知否知否，应是绿肥红瘦》里，申氏将丈夫齐衡对她的冷淡，归咎于齐衡忘不了他视为初恋的白月光明兰，又受了一些人的挑唆，当明兰和申氏终于在宴会上初次见面时，申氏带着深深的敌意。　　但她没想到的是，她的一腔怒意却如一拳打到了棉花上，因为明兰很快就跟申氏聊起了真心话，说到了自己的难处，“都说我有福气，嫁到侯府是高攀，可谁知这宅院……有刁奴欺主，庄园瞒账，我一个庶女出身，无靠无挂，入了这府里，便也是寸步难行，你说我若撂不开这些，这日子，愁也愁死了。”　　申氏听到这番话之后，对明兰的态度有所改观，不仅不再为难她，甚至在日后明兰有难时，还真心为她出谋划策。

D | 　　申氏对明兰仍有戒备时曾问她：说这些话，是不是有些交浅言深？ 明兰回答：“很多事都是交深言浅弄出来的。”　　这的确是人际交往中很难把握的度，有人总按捺不住虚荣心，忍不住向周围的人凡尔赛，有人总试图在社交网络上打造出虚幻的精致完美生活，但真正明智、眼光长远的人，会像宝钗和明兰这样，懂得“自黑”，勇于打破虚假的完美表象，用“有懈可击”和“交浅言深”来化解敌意、收获真心。

E | 爱美丽也爱媒体。闲读红楼，注解人生。真正明智、眼光长远的人，会像宝钗和明兰这样，懂得“自黑”，勇于打破虚假的完美表象，用“有懈可击”和“交浅言深”来化解敌意、收获真心。　　（《小康》·中国小康网 独家专稿）　　本文刊登于《小康》2024年4月下旬刊。

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